They listen to each other. They hear that they aren't the only ones not able to sleep, having their teachers yell at them
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They listen to each other. They hear that they aren't the only ones not able to sleep, having their teachers yell at them
Three deployments in, I still have days when I want to hide under the bed and cry
Its hard to go away, it's hard to come back, and go away and come back again ... That is happening on a larger scale than in our previous military endeavors. They're just getting their feet wet with some sort of sense of normalcy, and then they have to go again.
There's nothing that has prepared many of our families for the length of these deployments
It's hard to communicate to a family member how stressful the environment is, not just the risk of injury or death, but the austere circumstances, the climate, the living conditions.
Infidelity is huge on both sides _ a wife is lonely, she looks for attention and finds it easier to cheat ... It does make even the most sound marriages second-guess.
They come home and find that problems are still there ... Instead of a refreshing R-and-R, a nice little second honeymoon, it's battle for two weeks.
He didn't want to go _ he was afraid, but he had a job that he'd signed up to do and he went and did it ... I do think it led up to everything that happened. ... It opened up a world of death and chaos and uncertainty.
My wife and friends, they tell me I'm not the same person before I came back _ not as loving ... You really realize how insignificant you are in this world.
The tactics learned as part of military training are often used by those who commit domestic violence
They have no clue what the rate of domestic violence is _ they only know what's reported to the system, and that's always lower than the actual rate ... I'm disappointed. ... I know the system is stressed to the umpteenth degree. But I do think they need to do the right kind of research so they can keep up with this.
When the soldier goes overseas three, four times, the fuse is a lot shorter ... They explode quicker, and the victim gets hurt worse.
Once it starts to affect performance, I'm involved and want to know every detail ... It's miserable stuff ... but it's my job.
Their commander said they wouldn't be of any use until the problems were resolved