FILE-In this publicity image released by TLC, reality TV stars, Jon Gosselin, right, and his wife Kate Gosselin, from the TLC series, "Jon & Kate Plus 8," are shown in Hawaii. So many cheaters, so little advice. What is a governor to do if he has been caught cheating? What about the father of eight children and star of a hit reality TV show? Or the head of a European country caught in a scandal over whether he paid for sex? Everyone needs advice sometimes. And since they're unlikely to seek it themselves, we decided to seek it for them.