Kate Gosselin speaks at the Women's Conference 2009 "Night at the Village," at The Long Beach Convention Center on Monday Oct. 26, 2009, in Long Beach, Calif. Reality TV dad Jon Gosselin says he's returned $180,000 to a joint account he shares with his estranged wife Kate as the couple continues their bitter divorce battle. Gosselin criticized his wife for not showing up Monday for a court hearing in the Philadelphia suburb of Norristown.