Hailey says she thinks it's a good idea that we both take some time right now and focus on each of our individual lives. Read Full Statement On ETOnline.com Rabbi Shmuley, who also had a show on TLC, told the New York Post that he advised Gosselin, 32, to break it off with Glassman. I have advised him to end it with Hailey ... It is unacceptable to be in a relationship when he is still married and has to take care of kids who are hurting. It is not a healthy relationship.